You would think as a writer I’d have a word for every situation. That penning a comment in a card or social media post would be second nature. But if you are a writer, you know these are the most complicated situations in which to write. I don’t know if it’s the pressure the reality of the moment. Fiction? Sure, give us a blank page and let us have at it, but a 250-character comment about a celebrated moment, that’s another thing entirely.
Whether it be Mother’s Day or a birthday, my wife probably refreshes her feed in search of that moment when her procrastinating partner will eventually pen that perfect post. I’ll get there, but why does it take forever to find those words? Shouldn’t writers have them ready from go? Am I alone in this? Or perhaps it’s the guy in me.
There is nothing I love better than showering my wife with attention. I will take her out for a fabulous evening when able, but most often we share a meal at home. We’ve grown accustomed to our evenings together, the simplicity of something on the grill, a bottle of wine, and time with each other.
Being married 25 years, whether it be a holiday like Valentines Day or a double shot of Mother’s Day/birthday as I had on Sunday, I know she will love whatever is planned as long as love is behind it. However, I loved seeing her face light up when each of our five kids called her on Sunday.
I know each of you are a mom or knows a mom who loves their children more than life. They’ve sacrificed much to guide them to who they are today. Young and old, kids will always need their moms. Dads teach kids other things, guy stuff. But moms, they give a nurturing edge that will always bring kids home.
Praise God for moms. She is there on her knees when we are out there making bad decisions and sees us back home. She loves us when no one else will. When no one else believes in us, she does. We owe her more than a phone call, hug, or a dozen roses—but she will receive these with joy.
Think about your mom in the sound of your own children’s voices. Remember her sacrifices when you’re asked to go the extra mile. For me, I may not always know what to say to my mom or wife, but I know that what I go through as a dad and husband is experience enough to appreciate them more than they know.
Moments for the Heart 